Friday, October 13, 2023

Ceramic Villages, Hardware Stores, and Perspective

I got kicked out of an It's a Wonderful Life Facebook page a couple of weeks ago, and until this morning, as I sat down to write this blog post, I didn't really care. In fact, I was laughing at how stupid all of it was, and how people failed to keep their perspective. Now, after searching for a photo to compare against the photo that started the entire ruckus, I'm pretty peeved at the irrationality of the page owner who kicked me out, and the laziness of the person who posted the photo in the first place.

Several months ago, maybe even a year ago, I joined a page that was all about the It's a Wonderful Life ceramic village that was created by Target. I did it out of curiosity to see what pieces I was missing and what kinds of prices they were fetching. I learned a lot from the group, and I also found out that they got a lot of information from this blog. A lot of members liked to supplement their villages with pieces from a collection called Christmas Valley, which was something I didn't do.

Recently, one of the members posted a photo that showed a hardware store. She was so excited about this discovery because it was the first time that she had found a photo of a hardware store in what she thought was Bedford Falls. This photo somehow gave her permission to add, and a location to put her ceramic hardware store in her village, and it meant something extra to her because Jimmy Stewart's father owned a hardware store. She was all wound up and wanted to get ahold of an author who had printed a map of Bedford Falls in one of his books and get him to add the hardware store to his map.


Looking at the photo, one could clearly tell it was the same set, but it was decorated for a different film. I voiced that opinion but offered to use my connections to contact the author through a mutual friend. I did so. Within minutes, our mutual friend sent me several screenshots in which the author offered a scathing, vulgar opinion of this woman's evaluation of the photos in question. The photos are included here.


The image
The photo in question with arrows pointing to the hardware store.

I asked if the author knew what movie the photos were from, waited for another answer, and returned to the Facebook group with the verdict. I couldn't print what the author actually said, so I simply said that he was adamant that the set was the same, but it was a different film, and that I was waiting to find out which one.

Over the course of several days, a couple of people asked multiple times if I had heard back, and I kept telling them no. Finally, after not getting an answer, I gave them several bullet-point reasons why the photo didn't match the Wonderful Life set:

1) Dirt roads in the photo, but not in IAWL
2) The bakery building is clearly the same, but the bakery sign is missing
3) The open lot just to the left of the bakery has a fence in front of it in the photo but doesn't in IAWL.
4) There was also a discrepancy in maps from the author and another map that is posted on the group's Facebook page, but I don't remember the details at this moment for the purpose of this blog.

So it is my evaluation is that there was not a hardware store in Bedford Falls. I wasn't rude about it. I simply posted things I noticed in the photo that pointed to facts. I heard nothing more for about a week. Then I was at my son's high school marching band showcase and something appeared on the page from the page owner that said something about being kind to others and respecting others' opinions and no need to argue. Then I got a private message from her that said someone was offended that I had the nerve to post my bullet-point comment and state that the hardware store wasn't in the movie. She proceeded to put me on a 28-day reprimand, in which I couldn't comment on the page.

Of course, I responded, reminded her that there were people hounding me, wanting to know what the author had to say, and I sent her screenshots of what the author actually did say, pointing out that I could have just published that and it could have been a lot worse. I wasn't rude or condescending in my posted comments. I simply pointed out inconsistencies between the photos and the film and told her in a private message that if her feelings were that fragile she could just ban me from the page. So she did.

I wasn't upset about it. Not until this morning when I went searching for a photo to compare the Bedford Falls street scene to the photo in question to point out the differences. I did a Google image search for "It's a wonderful life bakery scene" and came across this page. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bedford_Falls_%28It%27s_a_Wonderful_Life%29 And on that page was this photo: 

Wikipedia photo
Wikipedia photo

Notice what that says beneath the photos? "Shots used in the film Cimarron (1931)." Had the original poster of the original photos taken her time, she would have known that it was not a shot from IAWL. She found a couple of photos and ignored the fact that hundreds of films had been shot on the same set. And the owner of the page allowed feelings to get in the way of facts.

The fact is that there was no hardware store in It's a Wonderful Life, just as there was no record store. And yet, I bought the record store because it was part of the Target village, despite the fact that it looked so ridiculous and out of place for the time period of the film.

Target Record Shop

At the end of the day, I have discovered 3 takeaways from this experience:

1) Spend your money the way you want. If you want to add a hardware store to your ceramic village because Jimmy Stewart's dad owned one, knock yourself out. If you want to add something from A Christmas Story or a building from A Nightmare Before Christmas, then DO IT. But if you want to stay true to the film, there wasn't a hardware store in the film, and you should technically only use one pose of each character instead of having George and Mary throwing rocks at the Granville house while at the same time posing with the family and driving in the car and gathered around the Christmas tree. Bottom line: It's YOUR money. Do what makes you happy.

2) If you don't want to hear the answer, then don't ask the question. I have been a serious researcher about It's a Wonderful Life since the mid-1990s. I wrote an unpublished book. I have studied and compared all of Stewart and Capra's movies that are still available. I have watched It's a Wonderful Life about 900 times (no lie) in black and white and in color, comparing scenes, looking at scenes in close-ups, and studying character motivation and theme. Until I learned about the author in question, I had been working on making my own map. I know this film inside and out. I was a member of the It's a Wonderful Life WebRing in the early days of the Internet. I started studying this film when Jimmy Stewart was still alive. If I don't know the answer to a question I know people who do. Facts are different than opinions. Opinions are great, but when photos are involved, it is not a matter of opinion, as we have seen here. The author in question has been studying and assembling the map of Bedford Falls for more than 20 years. One random person on a ceramic fandom collector page finding two photos from an archive I can almost guarantee the author has seen is not an argument that a building existed in a film, no matter how much you wish it to be true. Trust the years of research. I gave a factual answer to the question that was asked of me and I got banned because someone didn't like the answer. That is insane.

3) Don't forget to maintain perspective. My goal when I started was to learn. Now my goal is to teach others and maintain the legacy of It's a Wonderful Life, its actors, and all of those involved in its making. I do that by sharing facts and dispelling myths (Bonus: Bert and Ernie on Sesame Street were NOT named after characters in this film). A ceramic village is just decoration. It has its own value, but it's individual to each household. There is no reason to get upset about a piece of painted ceramic.

Keep it real, folks.

Thursday, June 17, 2021

It's a Wonderful Tattoo


For Christmas, my wife, Jenn, told me I could get another tattoo, my second. I have wanted another one for years. My first one was a "reset button," designed to look the the "fire" button on the old Atari 2600 joysticks. I got that one in 2003 or 2004 after my divorce to remind me that I am in charge of my life and my future, not my practice wife/mother of my first child.

I have wanted a second tattoo for years, and have kicked around the idea of a Wonderful Life-themed tattoo for a while. I thought about the drawing of George lassoing the moon, but among other reasons, I decided not to do that, because that seemed to be the go-to design. I wanted something unique. And I wanted to incorporate my children in some way. So I went back to the drawing board. 

The book where I found my inspiration

And THEN I looked through the book It's a Wonderful Life: The Illustrated Holiday Classic by Paul Ruditis and illustrated by Sarah Conradsen, which I received as a Christmas gift from my parents. In it, I found two gorgeous illustrations of George Bailey praying on the bridge. I started playing with those ideas .... not suicide, but of praying and my children, and how would I incorporate them. And then I thought of the role bells play in the film.

I also wanted to incorporate my wife in the design, but I didn't want to include her name, because tattooing your wife's name on your body guarantees a divorce. That's just bad juju. Not gonna' do it. Some people suggested using her initials and putting "XXX Bridgeworks"  (where XXX are her initials) on the bridge as a way to include her. But then I realized her birth flower was holly. So that was easy.

But since I wear glasses and George Bailey doesn't, I had my tattoo artist bury the face in his hands instead of showing the face. That way, it is unclear if it is me or George Bailey praying. I also added a square and compasses lapel pin to represent my involvement in the Masonic fraternity.

So, you can look at this tattoo as simply a scene from the film inspired by a book made for children, or you can look at it as symbolic of me, praying over my children, represented by the bells, bridging my past to their future.

Below is the process of the tattoo. It was completed in two sessions. Session 1 was Feb. 5, 2021, which was the anniversary of my parents' wedding, and my grandfather's death (neither of which happened this year). Session 2 happened June 1. I might need to get the white touched up at some point, but that will be after swim season is over.

Last moment for bare arm

End of Day 1 progress Feb 5, 2021

Final tattoo, completed June 1, 2021


Monday, November 9, 2020

It Happened One Christmas Revisited

It Happened One Christmas

For years I have bashed the film It Happened One Christmas. And by bashed, I mean BASHED.  And for the most part, I stand by my position.

* It's a Wonderful Life should never be remade. Ever.

* If a director or a writer wants to make a film and make the female the hero of the film, I'm absolutely fine with that. Captain Marvel, Wonder Woman, and Hidden Figures are just three examples of films that focus on the female hero. Why remake an old film when you can create a whole new story in which the female is the hero? It's ridiculous to recast something old to make something new.

THAT BEING SAID......

I have bashed this movie in the past after only one viewing (https://risefallriseagain.blogspot.com/search?q=It+Happened+One+Christmas). After a second and third viewing, I have to admit I don't hate it as much as I have in the past.

I watched it again in January, 2020, and I have to admit that I find *some* value in it. While it replicates the dialogue of the original film, and simply tries to make women equal to men through role reversal, I still find some value.

Let me clarify right here and now that my issue is not gender equality. My wife is a badass. I'm 46. My wife is 43. We had a baby a week before Christmas. My wife and my daughter can do whatever they want. We just elected our first female woman of color as Vice President. I learned a long time ago to trust a mother's instinct and not question it, which was why we were in the hospital on New Year's Day 2020 through Jan 3, 2020 for the baby, even though I thought the doctor would just tell us that it was a virus and needed to work itself out. It wasn't. The wife was right.

The town of Seneca Falls, NY is the inspiration for Bedford Falls. It is also home to the National Women's Hall of Fame. I have visited this town, and I must say that for me it is inspirational on several fronts. I'm a very liberal Democrat. I don't hide it. I'm proud of it. Empowered women make me happy. That's why I married one....a very vocal one.

It Happened One Christmas is a decent remake. It isn't great, but it isn't as crappy as the movie Clarence (1990) https://risefallriseagain.blogspot.com/2015/09/movie-review-clarence.html

Here are my issues with IHOC:
  • Remakes suck. Period. If you want to make a film about a female hero, WRITE ONE. That is perfectly legitimate and adds to the creativity of film.
  • Mary Bailey WAS the hero of It's a Wonderful Life. Why are we making her the victim in the remake?? Mary Bailey was a strong Psalms 31 wife who kept the family together in its toughest moments. Why are we changing this narrative and taking the power away from her???
Mary Bailey is an amazing, powerful woman as portrayed by Donna Reed. Why are we challenging this? From one perspective, I can understand it: Seneca Falls is the site of the first women's rights convention and the birthplace of the women's suffrage movement. So from that point of view, I give It Happened One Christmas credit. It has the balls to stand up where other movies don't dare to speak their names. And for that, I give it HUGE kudos for making Mary Baily the focus of the film instead of a secondary character.

It Happened One Christmas is available for streaming on Amazon Prime.